What are the warning signs of child sexual abuse?

Children often show us rather than tell us that something is upsetting them. There may be many reasons for changes in their behaviour, but if we notice a combination of worrying signs it may be time to call for help or advice

What to watch out for in children:

- Running away

- Self-harm (cutting, burning or other harmful activities)

- New adult words for body parts and no obvious source

- Outburst of anger

- Regressing to younger behaviours, e.g. bedwetting

- Becoming unusually secretive

- Nightmares, sleeping problems

- Acting out in an inappropriate sexual way with toys or objects        

- Becoming withdrawn or very clingy

- Sudden unexplained personality changes, mood swings and seeming insecure

- Unaccountable fear of particular places or people

- Changes in eating habits

- Talk of a new, older friend and unexplained money or gifts

- Physical signs, such as, unexplained soreness or bruises around genitals or mouth, sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy

- Not wanting to be alone with a particular child or young person 

Should I be worried?

Any one sign doesn't mean that a child was or is being sexually abused, but the presence of several warning signs suggests that you should begin to ask questions and consider seeking help.

Keep in mind that some of these signs can emerge at other times of stress such as:

- Death of a family member or pet

- Problems at school or with friends

- During a divorce

- Other anxiety-inducing or traumatic event